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Jane Newell's avatar

Hal, thank you for so generously - and vulnerably - sharing with us your process, as you are living it! How to make sense of the not-sensible? How to live with the unthinkable, the unwanted, the impossible to embrace? Like you, I tend to reject, instinctively, what I can not bear to allow in (my inner sanctum) and often with time, and much struggling to comprehend, a small space emerges inside which I hesitantly but intentionally begin to allow for the not-wanted reality to make itself known - and felt - to me. And, as you so brilliantly described, a "new me" emerges...and I marvel at this new capacity for being human.

As always, Hal, your personal sharing creates a path for others' self-expression - in this case, mine🥰 I pray you find joy as you embrace the full range of light and darkness this season. Best, Jane

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Hal Grotevant's avatar

Thanks so much, Jane! I appreciate sharing this challenging journey of life with you.

But yes, it is also the time to find the joy of the season and the expansion of the light. I am heading to Portland tomorrow to spend Christmas with my son, and am really looking forward to that. Wishing you a wonderful holiday as well.

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Jane Newell's avatar

So glad you will be with family!

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Paul Wittenberger's avatar

What a wonderful response, Hal. Indeed, we are all held in the Tao, and if we listen, that vast stillness will speak to our hearts, bringing comfort and peace. Thank you!

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Hal Grotevant's avatar

Wishing you peace too!

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Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you, Hal

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Unapaulagetic's avatar

Ah, this speaks to me. Thank you.

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carol elde's avatar

Very calming and resonates with me. On a musical note, did you view/listen to a latest rendition of Handel's Messiah, Too Hot to Handel? It was on PBS> Very lively regardless of anything else.

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Hal Grotevant's avatar

Thanks Carol. A friend send me a link to Too Hot to Handel yesterday before I got on the plane It's on my radar to take a look / listen. Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas and new year ahead.

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